12 Stages of Temptation

1. Readiness to temptation
2. Alertness to temptation
3. Innocent meeting
4. Intentional meeting
5. Public lingering
6. Private lingering
7. Purposeful isolating
8. Pleasurable isolating
9. Affectionate embracing
10. Passionate embracing
11. Capitulation
12. Acceptance

Defense to this:

• Be in the Word of God on a daily basis
• Be accountable to others
• Limit the amount of time spent with a person other than your spouse
• Don't be in the pastorate or counseling
• Admit it can happen to you